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Why You Must Be Don't Fall In love But Instead Just Walk In Love?

                                                                                                                                                           

Hey!You. 
Yes, You are LOVED❤️
 You the one who reads this.

If you are single and you are in the waiting season. This message is for you. Hoping that you will be enlightened and gain wisdom.☺

But before we get started, 

How do we know if we are single? 

We know it because we are not engaged in a relationship? Well, it's definitely not. 

Single means you fully know yourself and your worth as a man and a woman. You are Completely whole as a being. Looking for better half is just only an option. You need to work out well all of the ASPECT OF YOUR LIFE before taking the next chapter in life. So you can be called Single and ready to mingle!

Well, life is such beautiful and amazing we have. So you used it for a great purpose.

Choosing a partner in life. It really needs great attention, a wise and Godly decision to make.

Because it will talk about and determine your future.

But anyway let's get started.

What is love?

According to the world,

Love encompasses a range of strong and positive emotional and mental states, from the most sublime virtue or a good habit to the deepest interpersonal affections to the simplest pleasure.

To be loved and to love is a really great feeling we can have ❤

At the start of the relationship.

If two people in love together. They easily communicate and appreciate the smallest things. Their eyes are full of sweetness in their soul that they can only understand. 

This love will cover the face of the reality of two people in love, and just like the world is spinning around of them.

However, I want you to know the truest and real one.

Love is not just at the beginning look so STUNNING but it's until the end. It is really willing and ready to give up EVERYTHING and doesn't require any CONDITION, and for the sake to LOVE. 

YET, Love is a huge DECISION, not just EMOTIONS or FEELINGS.

Most of the people confused about this.

Yes, we need feelings or emotions to feel love but don't SUCH that concept DECIDE to love because you definitely regret, wonder, and suffer from it. 

Always remember that!!! LOVE IS A GREAT DEVOTION AND DECISION NOT JUST AN EMOTION.

So, don't ever rely on them! 

You don't want to also engage in a relationship that will not last and broken, right? at least if you are just looking for fun or constrained.

HEY! HOW DO I KNOW IF I AM IN THE FALL? 

EVERYTHING THAT FALLS GETS BROKEN.

Be aware of These types of partner SINGLE's:

1.Are you SINGLE that falls into someone who is not MATURE enough and SELFISH one?

-A someone who is not mature enough and selfish is like a baby that you need to take care of and they are just ego centric. Instead of keeping each other in a relationship. He or she doesn't need love. He or she needs a babysitter and adviser. Your love will be in vain.

2.Are you SINGLE that falls into someone BITTER?

-A someone BITTER that always holding his/her resent to the broken relationship she/he has. Always complain and compares the things he has before into the present. He doesn't need love. He needs HEALING, LETTING GO, AND CLOSURE.Your love will be put in  bitterness and toxicity.

3.Are you SINGLE falls into someone who is in a DESPERATE state?

Someone in despair to have a relationship is like always to do rush things and your love will be put in destruction. Everything has a perfect time. He/she just needs trust in a process of life. Don't need to chase or after it. It will come spontaneously that you never expect. 

4. Are you a SINGLE that falls into SOMEONE who has a LUST,TEMPER,JEALOUSY, AND CONTROL PROBLEM?

-Single you don't need to fall into this trap. Your love will put in danger.

5. Are you a SINGLE that falls into Someone who is Obsessive and Possessive?

Someone doesn't need love. He or she is broken. Needs to fix himself first. Your love will put in brokenness.

6.Are you a SINGLE that Falls into Someone who is Manipulating One?

Someone who is manipulating one doesn't need love. He or she is hurt. Your love will be put in hurt.

Whispering you wisely, it is not real LOVE.

REAL LOVE GIVES YOU FREEDOM NOT A FENCE.

but I have no choice...

Life is full of choices but you don't have choices to its consequences! As long as still breathing, you can work with it but takes a lot of time, SINGLE! So it is best to listen to the right counselors, not just good counselors because there is always a difference with it. 

HEY! HOW TO WALK IN LOVE?

WALK INTO LOVE AND EVERYTHING THAT GROWS GETS STRONGER.

Walking in love is a great decision You can have. In a sense, you are planting a seed in a big beautiful garden with a burst of spectacular sunshine. While, you are planting this seed into the right soil pouring the water and get the things that surround it such as bugs, rootstock, and etc. Real love also is like a seed that we plant in a relationship.



Needs to be handle with care, pour the purest, real love, respect and value each other. 
Get the ugly things that make it ruin such as pride, bitterness, hurt, insecurities, obsessions, possession, and jealousy. that doesn't help the relationship to grow.
Aside from that you building and helping each other to grow.
The relationship will get stronger.

But in the end, how much you draw it perfectly.
If the relationship doesn't push us in holiness and Godliness.
It takes nothing.
the worst it will lead us into misery.


BE PATIENT, TRUST, PRAY AND DO YOUR PART SINGLE!

God is preparing a person for you that preparing also for you.

 "DON'T FALL INTO LOVE; EVERYTHING THAT FALLS GETS BROKEN AND JUST WALK INTO LOVE AND EVERYTHING THAT GROWS GETS STRONGER"- Sheila❤


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