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Why You Must Pursue Singleness More?


Singleness is a state of quality alone.
And I want to address this post to the young innocent ones.
As far as I perceive in today's generation, if you are single they may see you as poor, weak, lonely, others, weird, and sometimes, they will tease you for being single.
Right?

As I also noticed, some of the young ones want to escape this kind of perception so that they find a solution through having a partner. But the fact, it doesn't make them whole and the worst, some of them leads to destruction in their life.

We should have the right principle especially in this kind of decision!

But when will be the right time you should be able to do this? 

As I listen to a certain message about singleness.
I hope this message will blow your mind and gives you an idea to pursue singleness even more.

In the message singleness has three parts:
1. Being Unique- as a single, you need to find, create yourself first, do the things that make you unique such as your hobbies, career, the things that God put in you that need to develop and nurture.

2.Being Prepared -as long as you are single we need to be aware of our characters, attitudes, and relationship with the Lord. As well also, the different aspects of life which we need to WORK OUT our physical, emotional, mental, financial, social, and Spiritual.

3. Being Whole -it takes a long time and perseverance to know your worth as a single and as those things make you realize how valuable for being you that has God created and shape you according to His purpose and glory.

But I have been single for too long.

Don't set your standard in this world because it will lead you to destruction.
Let us remember All things work together for good.
Trust and wait for His perfect timing.

You are too serious about that thing I just want to date so that I can experience the feeling.

 Don't think in that kind of way surely you will be put in the devastation!

I just date for fun.
 
Someone's heart needs to be loved, protected, and care for.
Not for fun or hurting and brokenness.
If you wanna have fun you can get a hobby, do sports, learn cooking, be engage in great certain things.
That's will make you have fun.
Don't use someone's heart for fun.

I should follow my heart.

Follow your heart is the most dangerous statement but you must guard your heart and mind through Christ.

How could I know If she or is the one?

If he or she's the one You don't need to feel fear but peace, love, and joy and he or she don't come in the rush moment but in an unexpected situation, and your heart is already prepared.

Some people do rush things and if they are engaged in the reality of being married. Some of them feel unhappy and the worst if they are not satisfied with their marriage and they will think they are the wrong person.

Reflecting this sense,
Truly that singleness is a gift and not a curse.
You must develop the gift that God put in you, must love and live it.
Listen, learn and grow as an individual and have goals in life.
The most essential is the purpose for the glory of the Lord.

Indeed, Singleness must be pursued.
Hoping those three aspects of singleness help you to understand how worthy is it and you have been learned to treasure it more.

Life is so beautiful if we listen, learn, and become mature.
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